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Reasons for blue
People choose this because they value honesty and believe realistic expectations prevent future hurt. Some feel responsible for offering clarity. Others fear their friend will blame them later if things go wrong. This choice often reflects integrity, care, and long-term thinking.
Reasons for red
People choose this because they want to protect their friend’s excitement and emotional momentum. Some believe hope fuels motivation. Others fear being seen as negative or unsupportive. This choice often reflects empathy, optimism, and a desire to preserve emotional energy.
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